Back
    There are two very important things to remember when massaging someone's back: Don't put any pressure on the spine, and use your hands equally and simultaneously on the left and right side of the back to create a balanced sensation.

  1. Facing her head lay your hands on the lower back with your fingers facing her head.

  2. Press down with light pressure and slowly slide your hands straight up her back towards her neck with your fingers still pointing towards her head.

  3. When you have reached the bottom of the neck, with your finger still pointing forward, widen the space between your hands so that the are resting on the outer part of her shoulders.

  4. While still applying light pressure, pull your hands back towards yourself.

  5. Repeat a few times.

  6. Return to step one position, with your fingers pointed toward the outer shoulders. Using your palm, make small circular motions, up the center (on either side of the vertebrae) and down the sides of the back. The direction of these simultaneous circles should mimic breast stroke (get your mind out the gutter--we are talking about swimming here), the right hand goes clockwise and the left hand counter-clock wise (simultaneously).

  7. Slide your hands onto your partners shoulders. Place your thumbs on either side of the spine, just below the hairline. With small circles, use your thumb pads to massage the muscles on either side of the spine. Work your way down the back, moving only a half inch at a time, remaining next to the spine the entire way down.

  8. Repeat step seven, two or three times.